wedding preps

its friday n i’m in no mood for work. so let me blog a bit abt my wedding preps so far. eh wait a minute. what wedding preps? :p

you see, i’ve been chastised many times by my aunties and frens alike. apparently, i’m one of the most bochap pengantin-to-be around. to them at least.

whats the colour theme for yr room? colour theme for the hantarans? nak pakai dulang ke bakul? dah beli barang hantaran ke belum?
errrrr entah haven’t decided yet

hv u guys decided on the bedset yet?
errrr…we haven’t even gone looking yet

decoration bawah blok colour aper? ahh?? belum discuss dgn decorator lagik? baik decide quick if not all the nice ones gone ah

u pakai mak andam aper? ohh…kenapa tak ambik fm? ke aa (rh, zr, n all other ‘famous’ mak andams) ke? their makeup n baju very nice u know. u can afford them what…
yes i can afford them. but why do i want to splurge so much on this? what can i say…my practicality’s at work here

oh. and the ultimate is this..

aunt: how come everytime i see u ure eating ah?? ure gonna be a bride u know. u better not eat so much if u don’t want to be a fat pengantin. macam mana nak look good in pictures nanti?

me: takpelah. kalau dah gemuk tu..aper nak buat kan

aunt: that’s y u hv to diet now. so when i show your pictures to my frens, i can show my beautiful thin niece instead of a fat one

ishishish. n that coming from my favourite aunt sumore :)

well i suppose i have to expect all this lah. after all, i’m the first cucu perempuan (for my grandparents) and niece (for my aunts & uncles) to get hitched, so….

my folks on the other hand, are pretty cool abt the whole affair. especially my mum. love her love her love her(!!) for being the person that she is.

i want to have a nice, simple wedding. one where everything will go smoothly n guests will be able to enjoy themselves (and not curse the hosts behind our backs cos the food’s not enuff lah, the layanan tak memuaskan lah, blahblahblah).

most importantly, me n spider want a stress-free wedding. cos seriously, isn’t it the marriage n the years ahead together that’s most important, and not the actual wedding day itself?

dearest mum has a very zen advice for me:
just take all the advice & comments u get with a smile lah. don’t get angry or agitated, even if what they’re saying is nonsense. after all, they have yr interests at heart, and they’ll ultimately be the one to doakan kebahagiaan the two of you

how very true :)

so i’ll continue wif my bochapness and i’ll smile my sweet smile everytime i get questions/comments on my wedding preps

:)
sweet tak?